Sunday, October 25, 2009

Young Love



It was late afternoon last week when sitting out side writing in my journal at an attempt to describe those people and objects around me.


The afternoon had been very hot and a cool change, a soft wind, soon made the area more comfortable.


It seemed I had been writing a long time, looking at the sky turn crimson, when I noticed two young people half laying on the grass and gazing into each other's eyes.


There is no doubt that I was observing "young love", reminding me of a sentimental scene from some forty's film.


As a writing exercise, I tried to describe both their emotions and body language.


Then, I suspect, the boy must have said something to the beautiful young woman for she suddenly stood up, turned in a huff, and walked in the opposite direction. The young man called out to her but she ignored his pathetic apologies and left through the door.


The poor boy looked devastated, running after her like a broken hearted puppy.


Oh, the games we play in love!


What I found interesting was how sudden their mood changed from a love scene to a "lover's spat."


Sometime I miss the intensity and almost unendurable passion of young love. Then only a few seconds pass and I remember the pain and loss that young love brings as well. Is it worth the pain? At times I think "no", and other times remember the passion and overwhelming pleasure of it all to then ask myself if it was even worth the trouble.


"It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all." as the saying goes.

Looking back, for me at least, it was worth the trouble, because thankfully, the heart is a resilient muscle.